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youWISHyouknewME_152's avatar

So, guy advice?

Asked by youWISHyouknewME_152 (43points) March 17th, 2008 from iPhone

so there is this guy that lives down the road from me and everyone likes him. He is athletic, cute, and has the bluest eyes ever. Well I hated him for ever, and he was always trying to be feiends with me. Then one day, I was having a really bad day and I was crying. He came up and put his arm around me and told me I could talk to him. Then I realized that I really like him. But everyone thinks that I hate him, and my friends would be mad if they knew I liked him. And he is all popular macho, so idk what to do. HELP!!!!

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Randy's avatar

Hey…that guy sounds like me. Do you have a crush on me? lol, jk. Who cares what your friends think? If you like him then you like him. Thats all there is to it. Just go for it. Whats the worst that could happen?

teejay0514's avatar

Like Randy said, who cares about what your friends think? They’re probably jealous because it seems like he’s interested in you.

Thesilvertiger's avatar

I hope he was nice to you more than this one time. If not you may not know what his real intentions are. If he is then great I say go for it.

youWISHyouknewME_152's avatar

well thanks. And yes the guy has been nice to me my entire life, I have just refused to accept that I like him. And he is always flirting around with me, asking me to go to dances with him, telling me he is going to walk to my house, telling everyone he loves me. But idk what’s flirt and what’s not. Its exam week, and I get to see him tomorrow. I will try and use the advice.

ninjaxmarc's avatar

sometimes two opposites attract
try it, if it don’t work at least you tried instead of saying to yourself “what if”

scamp's avatar

Talk to him more. Even if he isn’t good boyfriend material for you, he could be a great friend. Don’t concern yourself with other people’s thoughts. Good luck!

cwilbur's avatar

Why do you care what your friends think? Odds are you’re going to lose touch with them after high school anyway.

He seems to like you; if you like him as well, go for it.

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