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Ever think you're in a fantasy since things seems too good to be true?

Asked by Vincent_Lloyd (3007points) June 29th, 2010

Just wondering do you have times so good that you don’t believe it’s true? It’s only happened to me…...maybe 4–5 times maybe?

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keobooks's avatar

Sometimes when I’m in a really perfect part of nature, it seems to beautiful to be real.

YARNLADY's avatar

No, I just wonder why I’m so lucky when others aren’t.

Vunessuh's avatar

Nope, that hasn’t happened for me yet.

Berserker's avatar

Only when I’m tripping out on LSD.

Coloma's avatar

Yes, I have had some amazing highs in my life, believe it…ENJOY the good times!

LIFE is quite the adventure…I look at things from this perspective, as if I am a character in an unfinished novel where anything can happen!

zophu's avatar

Yeah, that happens right before everything goes to absolute super-shit, according to my experience.

Pandora's avatar

Yep! A few times in my life while awake, but most of the time it happened when I was asleep. :D

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

Aside from having the perfect woman (for me) as my wife, my life is closer to a nightmare.
I lost my career that I loved.
I live in constant pain.
I can’t sleep in a bed like a normal person.
I live where I do because I can’t afford to live elsewhere.
I have an old car that will die on me within a couple of years and then I will not even be able to leave town to buy groceries.
In nine years my disability income will be cut off and I will have to live on old age security (much less that I get now).
My physical condition is expected to continue to deteriorate.

Definitely not too good to be true!

Somehow I still manage to get out of bed each day and try to appreciate what I have.
Usually I succeed.

MacBean's avatar

This has never happened to me in a positive way. But a lot of the things @Dr_Lawrence listed apply to me, too, and I have occasionally wondered if I’m just a character in some writer’s mind that they abuse in order to feel better about their life.

BoBo1946's avatar

Yes, then i wake up!

partyparty's avatar

No I don’t.
Each morning I awake I make sure I am going to have a good day.
My choice.
Reality, not fantasy

gemiwing's avatar

I do. I chalk it up to being an adult child from a dysfunctional family.

Aster's avatar

Many times – long ago.

Haleth's avatar

Great question! I’ve felt that way a few times, just totally elated and thinking it was too good to be true. Sometimes I’ve wanted something for a really, really long time that I thought I could never have- and then finally gotten it and been incredulous. But the feeling of “holy shit, can this be real?” doesn’t ruin the moment, it just adds to it.

Coloma's avatar

A favorite teacher of mine..Eckhart Tolle speaks of this…

He says that the feeling of satisfaction at attaining something desired is not about the actual obtaining…be it a Porsche or a lover…it is that, for a brief moment, the egoic mind is stilled…the ‘wanting’ is never about the obtaining, it is about the stilling of ego’s never ending quest for ‘more.’

This is the state most humans exist in….not truly able to be happy and fully present with the oment, but always in search of the one thing that is felt to be needed for completion.

Crossroadsgrl's avatar

Love Tolle.
Yes this is a daily CHOICE

Anything else is a waste of your precious life

We MAKE our Life what it is

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