Is there a love more "real" than the other?

I answered this to another question, then I thought, it wasn’t even so relevant to the question, it’s just something I am wondering about, what do you think?:

I was married until about a year ago, 4 years, I felt I loved him as soon as a week from first date, actually felt this way with all of my relationships. Divorce was a consequence of not getting along for a very long time, since we turned out to be very diffrent, I didn’t appreciate him so much anymore and eventually stopped loving him romantically, though I still love him as a person and even value him more now that I don’t have to “stand” him :)

I asked myself a few times if there is a love that is “more real”, that long lasting love from my fantasies, that I just have not experienced yet?

Recently, I am begining to think that we are love and finding a mate is to find someone we feel we can share this love with, with the addition of sexual attraction.

I this is so, than we can “really” love many people, though we might not get along with all of them for a long term…

What do you think?