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NSFW: Ladies- Are you at least somewhat sexually attracted to women?

Asked by Facade (22937points) August 3rd, 2010

Men, feel free to observe , but try to keep your keyboard dry sorry about that…

I’ve heard people say that most if not all women are at least somewhat sexually attracted to women. I’m inclined to believe them.
So where do you stand?
If you’re not a lesbian, can you see yourself doing anything sexual with a woman?

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Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Facade You should have put your last comment (Keyboard) first.

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

Yes. But I’ve identified as bisexual for quite some time now, and have had many relationships with women.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I, Simone, am attracted to women, a lot.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

I am more than capable of recognizing beauty in a woman,but I have no desire to boink her giggles

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille boink her giggles? I don’t even know what would be involved in that sexual act.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I now want to try boinking and giggles

Facade's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille I, too, recently found out that I don’t care to actually have sex with women ahem, but everything else is a go =)

@Simone_De_Beauvoir You’re so great

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@papayalily -That’s because it’s new and trendy ;)
@Facade-To each their own :) I’ve known for a long time what/who/why I am attracted sexually to men.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@Facade Um, details in PM, please, thanks

SuperMouse's avatar

My short answer to your question is yes.

Frenchfry's avatar

I don’t have that urge… Never have. I against I am not the norm.

OpryLeigh's avatar

Yes I am attracted to women but I don’t know whether I would class myself as bisexual or just bicurious.

CMaz's avatar

I love women.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Wait a minute, isn’t this unfair to men? We have to compete with men and women to attract other women? (Actually, it sounds kind of nice and fun when I see it in a sentence.)

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe Women have to compete with men for other men. And I personally have had to do it on more than one occasion.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe Same for attracting men. Besides, heterosexual women that you’re trying to attract won’t go for women that you’re competing with.

Facade's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir I think they would, they just need some encouragement haha

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@Facade Well, sure some may…but still there are people that aren’t at all interested, like above.

Aster's avatar

No and ick.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Wow, I’ve got so many thoughts running through my mind. @Simone_De_Beauvoir My apologies, I started that thought totally sexist, just from my view as a male. I’m trying. The strange thing is, I’ve had a woman pull another woman out of my bed before, so I should have looked at that side of the equation

ucme's avatar

(sneaks in the back door) Well there is a lot to love about the female form, so I guess what i’m saying is why the hell not? (sneaks out almost unnoticed)

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe What you said wasn’t sexist. You have to stop kicking yourself in the head sometimes.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir It came from a sexist thought. I’m not kicking too hard because I am learning. :)

Jude's avatar

Women are indeed wonderful. :)

I am attracted to women, have fallen in love and have deep emotional connections with women and I prefer sex with women. Though, I have never fallen for a man, nor had any sort of an emotional connection with a guy, I can admire a good looking man, and I don’t mind the penis (sex with a fella, I mean). What does that make me?

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@jjmah It makes you a wonderful person for being able to connect with another person on a deep emotional level. (I hear the guys going ewww)

IBERnineD's avatar

One thing that is nice about being a woman, is that a woman’s sexuality is more fluid than a man’s. So, if I see a beautiful woman I can appreciate it, and if I like a girl I can do stuff with her if I like. Although in the long run I just prefer a man in that area.

Trance24's avatar

Im bisexual so I will have to say yes. Women are pretty =]

aprilsimnel's avatar

I appreciate that there are beautiful women out there, but I’m neither interested in women sexually nor in having a romantic relationship with any.

Aster's avatar

what april (above) said.

Facade's avatar

Much better than “no and ick”.

tranquilsea's avatar

18 years ago I found myself strangely attracted to another woman. It hasn’t happened again since and it’s not because I was repulsed by it. I think she was a very unique individual.

Jude's avatar

Love your topics, @Facade.

I’ll miss some of them. I’m away from the better half. :(

rangerr's avatar

I’m a very affectionate person. I’m attracted to most everyone in one way or another.
I’ve always been able to talk to guys better than girls, so 95% of the people I talk to are male.
I’m not sure I’d be able to last very long in a relationship with a female I just can’t seem to connect with them like I can with guys, but I’m all for playtime.
@Trance24 You hear that? 3 days until camping ;)

bob_'s avatar

I’d just like to say, this thread is great.

KatawaGrey's avatar

Well, the best sexual label to put on me is “bisexual” since I often find myself sexually attracted to members of both sexes note I said “sexes” and not “genders” but I find that rarely do all attractions come together for me for women. By this I mean that I may be sexually interested in a woman, but not necessarily intellectually or emotionally. I have never had a sexual experience or a relationship with a woman, though lord knows I’ve been interested. I find I prefer men but I think this more because a) I am around many more men than I am women nearly all of my friends are men and most of the activities I participate in attract many more men than they do women and b) because I understand men better than I understand women. Rather, I understand one very specific kind of man better than I understand any other kind of man or woman that is to say, I understand nerdy men best and it is very different to court a nerdy man than it is to court anybody else.

The short answer to your question is, “yes, I am sometimes sexually attracted to women.” :)

Pandora's avatar

I’m straight but I have been attracted to women but not in a sexual way. There is nothing a woman doesn’t have that I don’t have myself already. However, stick a man in front of me with sexy abs and biceps and I practically drool. Defenitely not the same reaction. Not even in the same ball park.
Physically women are softer and more appealing. Like a piece of art. And I have no interest what so ever in doing art work. Just pretty to look at.

But men for me have a more raw animal appeal.
Honestly though. I’ve lost interest in other guys years ago. My husband is all the hot I can handle or want to handle.

Brian1946's avatar

My inner lesbian really appreciates this thread. :-)

KhiaKarma's avatar

I have been attracted to several females (only 1 major crush though) and am sure I probably would have played around some if I hadn’t met my husband when I did. It’s not fun or exciting for him to think about me with another person/woman, in fact I think it intimidates him some. But yeah, the attraction has been there and sometimes comes up for me every once in a while…probably more curiosity than anything else. Does it feel different to kiss a woman? I bet it would be a gentler touch- and she’d know all ther right places….well, I may never know!

CMaz's avatar

This is like watching R rated lesbian porn. :-)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

How many men will admit they have been following this one from the get go?

sleepdoc's avatar

I will admit it

bob_'s avatar

I will happily admit it.

Jude's avatar

Ha. I’m not surprised by you last three.

jazmina88's avatar

men have some icky bits….usually their feet and hairy sweaty gonads, not sexy. for me.

women have curves and a certain mystique.

Luffle's avatar

I am attracted to some women although I have only dated men. I think that a woman would know what I would like more than a man would if she is familiar with her own body. I find them sexually appealing because I could probably emotionally connect with them more. Men are usually pretty clueless about women and assume they are know what to do.

I am not tempted to test my theory though. I think women are sometimes too emotional and try to attach too much meaning to everything.

QuartzKitty's avatar

I am bisexual and have had several relationships with women. Including my current one.

KatawaGrey's avatar

I think I know the solution here. Giant orgy. Even for you lurkers.

Jude's avatar

I’m in.

le_inferno's avatar

Somewhat. I’m not sure if I’d ever actually do anything with a woman, but there are definitely women that make me think about it.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

Yes but whether boyish or ultra feminine, they’ve got to be immaculate in their grooming and body proportionate. For some reason I’m much more super picky about my same sex attractions than towards males.

Scooby's avatar

I love, respect & worship woman!!! What the fuck more do you want???? Give us a clue!!!
:-/

AstroChuck's avatar

This is why I love @Facade.

El_Cadejo's avatar

ive been saying this for years….

stranger_in_a_strange_land's avatar

I happily shared my lady with another woman. Sometimes I wonder if I’m a lesbian stuck in a male body.

Dewey420's avatar

” All women, by nature, are lesbians ” Marilyn Manson

face it women are HOT, who can deny it.

stranger_in_a_strange_land's avatar

@Facade You left rope and handcuffs off the topic list.

Dewey420's avatar

Samantha Ronson is hot…ya know.

sleepdoc's avatar

@KatawaGrey are you making the arrangements?

Dewey420's avatar

@KatawaGrey I’m in as well. is it going to be one of those mask parties and the password to get in fidelio shh

amberrae's avatar

I am very attracted to a woman who takes care of herself, physically and mentally! Confidence is super sexy, and I am very glad I decided some time ago to act on my curiosity! A womans touch is incredible and I love it when I find myself laying next to a beautiful female, theres only one thing that could be better, and thats laying between two beauty’s! Mmmhmmm

bob_'s avatar

@amberrae Best. Answer. Ever.

amberrae's avatar

@bob_ Well thanks bob, it is true… found that out a few days ago, it was absolutely incredible! Almost at a loss for words….lol

Loner2011's avatar

I am engaged now, but before him. I was 100% Bi..

Ajulutsikael's avatar

I want to have a sexual experience with a woman badly, but I don’t know if it will ever happen. I’ve had kids and have stretch marks and my tummy isn’t tight anymore since I lost weight so quickly. My body isn’t where I want it to be for a sexual encounter with a woman. At this moment I’m in a committed relationship with a man. We have discussed a threesome, but I’m pretty insecure physically.

I don’t know if I’d ever have an emotional relationship with a woman seeing as I tend to not be good friends with women. I tend to avoid many of them. There was one girl in my life that I would’ve loved to try though.

elaina28's avatar

I think that’s pretty true. I’m a female, and I’m bisexual; I tend to lean more towards men, because I find many different kinds of men attractive. However, I do have some sexual attraction to females, but I’m much more picky with women than men. I have a girlfriend, and she is really the only female that I’ve had a strong enough sexual/romantic attraction to that I would have a relationship with her, if that makes sense. Basically, I’m sexually attracted to some women, but since I’m so picky with them, my girlfriend is the only one for which these feelings are strong enough to actually act on and have a relationship with her.

AnonymousWoman's avatar

I have been sexually attracted to women in the past. Would I do anything with a woman? Maybe. I’d have to be comfortable with her and she’d have to be comfortable with me, though, I think. ^_^

Fluthyou's avatar

Yes but not the full out….

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