[NSFW] How far will a guy go just to get in a girl's pants?

I know this is very broad, and my intention is certainly not to lump all men in one piggish category.

If a guy doesn’t get all touchy feely while kissing, try to cop a feel, try to get you to do something, or mention the subject at all… would that generally mean that he was just happy kissing, or would a guy go so far as to “convince” a girl he wasn’t pushing for sex in that way just to get her to let her guard down?

is this gibberish? I’m very tired.