What's the 'Beef' with veal?

Personally I grew up on veal. I love it! Osso buco, and Veal Piccata. Some people have a problem with it being baby cow meat. The best and most expensive veal even being unborn calf. My “beef” ( Pun intended ) with the issue is : Why is it okay for some to eat Adult cow meat vs. Baby calf ? You are still eatting the cow regardless of age. If you grab a burger from your favorite fastfood joint you are most likely eatting beef that was inhumanly treated. Why turn your nose up to veal? If it boils down to the treatment and humanity in it all. Does that make Kobe beef okay? In Japan, where the cows are rice and beer feed and massaged to improve beef quality. That sounds very humane.