Which is worse: To love more than you are loved, or to be loved more than you love?

I’m guessing we’ve all been there, on both ends. Is it harder to feel more for your partner than they do for you (and lets face it, you know when this is the case, even if you don’t want to admit it) or for your partner to feel more for you than you do for them? Have you ever been in this situation and conquered the imbalance?

I’m not really intending to get bogged down in the semantics of the word love, hence option to “feel more/less” if you like.