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Is having a "sexual relationship" with you best guy friend bad?

Asked by kiddo_nerd (6points) September 9th, 2010

well me and my best guy friend had a sexual relationship, i dont regret it or nothing but we both agreed that we will still be best friends and also have a “relationship” is he just using me.? or what

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ducky_dnl's avatar

It sounds like he’s just wanting a sexual relationship and that’s it. No love or care coming from his end.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Well, it takes two to tango so if he’s just using you, are you just using him? Time to talk it out again, it seems.

bob_'s avatar

It is if he’s bad in bed, I guess.

Disc2021's avatar

Someone’s using someone, that’s just the way it works.

Introducing sex into a platonic friendship is like introducing a lit match into gasoline – you’re just asking for an explosion. Some people manage to pull this off without any issue but 9 times out of 10 it turns into a big fight about one thing or another and a compromised friendship.

Mom2BDec2010's avatar

It depends how you look at it really. If you think you can have a sexual relationship without developing very strong feelings for him then I dont see anything wrong with it. But most of the time these situations turn into a disaster.

Seaminglysew's avatar

Helloooo! Who is using Whom? I think you both went in with your eyes wide open.

mindful's avatar

Usually when the friendship is genuine, both people want it but one of the two or both will decide against it because they don’t want to ruin their friendship.

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