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Jello's avatar

How do you let a girl know you like without being pervey or flirtatious?

Asked by Jello (39points) March 27th, 2008 from iPhone

because she is nice and shy, so I don’t want to be bad

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cwilbur's avatar

“Hey, I like you. Want to go get some coffee?”

Or, “Hey, I like you. Want to go to dinner and a movie on Friday?”

Jello's avatar

But I’d rather not put myself out there yet…

cwilbur's avatar

In other words, you want her to know you like her, but you don’t want her to know you like her. Figure out what you want, please.

Maverick's avatar

Send her a cake anonymously. Seems to be the thing to do (according to Flutherites anyway)

ishotthesheriff's avatar

just stop playing games. . .

allen_o's avatar

“do you fancy a spliff luv?”

allen_o's avatar

hey, worked for me, my girl was shy too

cake7's avatar

Asking her for coffee or to see a movie, doesn’t necessarily put you out there. You could be asking her as a friend. But like ishotthesheriff said, just stop playing games. If she likes your then good if not, well we can’t win them all.

KimboSlice's avatar

why would you not be flirtatious If you liked her?

Donato's avatar

Just be honest. Take a chance our you’ll never know.

trogdor_87's avatar

LOL somebody already beat me to the cake option.

samantha15's avatar

tell her to join you and your friends + her close friends to a movie at your house sit next to her but don’t put your arm around her just wait till she is comfortable with you

joevip's avatar

find another girl. !!!!!

crackerjack's avatar

If you don’t want to put yourself out there, i would agree to first become comfortable with her and allow her to get to know that you are not just after her for certain reasons and you are a good guy.
Then it will be easier to begin telling her how you feel.
For example, once she is comfortable with you and she is sad about a guy or if someone said a bad comment about her tell her that she’s beautiful and not to worry because she is probably the best girl there is.(but only if that is how you truly feel)

Jello's avatar

I am comfortable with her, but she just got back with her ex boyfriend.

As cake7 said, you can’t win them all

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