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Does he want a second chance?

Asked by jabzoog (18points) March 27th, 2008

A few weeks ago I met someone from online.. offline. We had a great first date. Went on the second date the night after.. ended up going on 5 dates in a 2 week span. I thought, yes, while things were going quickly.. they were going great. Then a couple of weeks ago I was thinking about making him dinner, so I called him to figure out his plans. He didn’t answer, and then later he called me back.. and after rambling on about meaningless stuff for a minute or two, he basically said something along the lines of “we’re at the cusp of a relationship, and that’s just something I don’t feel like I can do. you’re really cool and stuff but we have two very different lifestyles. I had a really fun time hangin gout with you..”

My reply was “OK.” i mean, I had only known him two weeks (we did not talk extensively online before the first date). I had begun to like him a lot, but it was easy to get rid of those feelings because they were so new.

Naturally, I stopped e-mailing, calling, text messaging, phoning him.. whatever.

2 WEeks pass, I had almost forgotten about him (though there were those few self-loathing moments where I wondered the real answer for his BS reason for calling things off) and today I receive an e-mail from him.

He sent me a typeface (we are graphic design nerds), and asked “how’s it going?”

I’m a bit perplexed. Any insight?

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