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Kkrazy55's avatar

Why do guys stare at me?

Asked by Kkrazy55 (127points) September 18th, 2010

I catch a lot of guys staring at me. Why do they do that? Is there even a reason why? Guys please answer too!! :)

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curlyz's avatar

maybe you’re a hottie!

faye's avatar

Do you wear a lot of makeup, minis, boobs mostly out?

TexasDude's avatar

Either you are hot or there is something wrong with you.

You’re probably just hot.

HungryGuy's avatar

Yes, maybe your attractive if you’re a girl, or a hunk if you’re a guy (you don’t say what sex you are). If you’re a girl, maybe someone like me would like to own you as my slave…

Kkrazy55's avatar

@faye My school has uniforms so no to the last 2. In public I usually wear T-shirts. I only wear a little bit of powder because I have a little acne but not too much to where I cake it on.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

You’re probably pretty,Silly!

Ben_Dover's avatar

You’re probably pretty silly!

ucme's avatar

You’re either drop dead gorgeous or resemble a drop dead corpse. Either or :¬)

Facade's avatar

They find you attractive =)

DrasticDreamer's avatar

Do they stare at you mostly when you’re in your school uniform?

Kkrazy55's avatar

@DrasticDreamer Yeah I am mostly reffering to the guys in my grade but sometimes like at the mall and stuff.

Sarcasm's avatar

I stare at people, not because they’re attractive or ugly, but because they’re doing something.
I was on the train the other day, and almost everyone was just idly staring out the window or down at the floor, and there was an old couple chatting with eachother. I had my music on so I couldn’t hear them, but watching their hand gestures and expressions was far more interesting than watching anybody else on the train.

That, or you’re attractive. Or you’re ugly. Or you’re wearing something hideous. Or you have a weird hair style. Or they’re trying to look up your skirt. Or they’re not looking at you, but they’re looking at something beyond you. Or they’re scanning the room and you caught them at the wrong time.

DrasticDreamer's avatar

@Kkrazy55 Ah, good. I thought perverts might be checking you out for the most part – but that doesn’t seem to be the case.

They’re looking because you’re pretty and they can’t help themselves. :)

faye's avatar

Then you’re pretty.

Frenchfry's avatar

Maybe it all in your head. You just happen to look at them when they glance at you. Maybe your the only one in the room, or maybe your a hottie, or maybe you have something on your face. There could be tons of reasons.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Because no one taught them right.

Austinlad's avatar

Do you have antennae or large horns coming out of your forehead? If not, it’s probably because you’re attractive and/or or have one of those personal auras that draw people to you.

Gamrz360's avatar

Maybe they like you, or find you attractive.

YARNLADY's avatar

Ask one the next time you see it. Are you sure you’re just not being overly self-conscious?

I am reminded of a funny incident when my cousin was a child. She had been sitting behind the couch for awhile, and suddenly popped up and yelled “Why is everybody looking at me?”, then ran out of the room. We all burst out laughing, because we didn’t even know she was there.

mammal's avatar

maybe they haven’t ever seen a squirrel use a computer before, or go shopping. or attend High School.

Pandora's avatar

Could be any number or reasons. But since you say most of the staring is boys your age in school, they probably find you attractive.
As for other guys, the school uniforms offer a different kind of fantasy to a lot of guys.
But I know personally for me. I often notice different things. Some people have certain features that just stand out among the average person. I may find myself catching glances at people with big eyes, or eyes that are an unusual color. I know I find it hard not to stare when I see someone with dark blue eyes, or hazel eyes that look caramel color. These are not colors I commonly see, or people with long dark lashes. Or even people with flawless skin.
Maybe you have something that is not so common.

Lightlyseared's avatar

It’s what guys do.

iamthemob's avatar

Nose goblins.

CherrySempai's avatar

They’re probably “People Watching.” That’s one of my favorite pastimes, and I wouldn’t be offended if I were you. It’s just interesting to watch what people do when they’re alone, how people interact, and things like that.

Also, at school I look at everyone I pass in the halls, sidewalks, scan the cafeteria when I walk in, etc. My university only has 1.3k students, so if I don’t look it could appear like I’m ignoring someone that I actually know. I’d rather look and smile than be rude and look down. :]

Kkrazy55's avatar

@Pandora I actually do have long dark eyelashes ha ha!!:):):)

Pied_Pfeffer's avatar

A pretty female friend was fairly accustomed to the ogling of men, except for the time that she was walking to the airport gate. She finally realized that her computer shoulder bag had hiked her skirt up on one side. Consider switching from a book satchel to a back pack.

AmWiser's avatar

You may have an allure about you that just make people want to look at you.

christos99's avatar

Wait a minute!!! Are you Ines Sainz???

wundayatta's avatar

Are you well-endowed as far as breasts are concerned? Guys have a hard time not staring at big breasts. Especially teenage guys.

rooeytoo's avatar

It could be that piece of parsley stuck between your front teeth.

Pandora's avatar

Yeah, thats probably it then. Long lashes can either make someone look innocent (like a puppy) or when you peer out the corner of your eyes, you look like a vixen. Depends on the shape of your eyes.

deni's avatar

this question is retarded. they stare at you probably because they like something they see. we don’t know what you look like, how would we know? do you not wear a bra? do you have huge boobs? do you wear booty shorts or mini skirts? do you have nice legs? are you pretty? do you have a goiter? its probably one of those.

janbb's avatar

I agree with @deni. How could we possibly know why they stare at you?

answerjill's avatar

Maybe you have chocolate on your face. That happened to me once. Guy had been staring at me and I thought he was interested. Then, he came up and whispered, “you have chocolate on your face.”

Kkrazy55's avatar

@janbb yeah you’re right. I was just wondering what y’all think. Sorry I should have said that!!

Kkrazy55's avatar

@christos99 That’s a name??? Never heard of it.

Seaminglysew's avatar

Enjoy the looks. Some day you may not turn as many heads, enjoy it while you can. Oh, the beauty of youth!

trailsillustrated's avatar

this question was asked to me by my 14 year old daughter. how old are you? its because she is tall and long and has long hair and a beautiful elf face. Its probably because you are an attractive teenager. be humble and mature about it

crazyandbeautiful's avatar

i stare at guys cause they are really attractive. if they stare at you they must like you ALOT. i would take it as a compliment. i would get that a lot when i was younger. not so much anymore now that i am older. but live it up! enjoy the moment while ya can.

majorrich's avatar

Only the paranoid people are staring at you… unless you have unusual or pleasing attributes.

zen_'s avatar

You’re probably silly, pretty.

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

They’re staring because they know what you did. Everybody does!

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

No no just kidding. Don’t freak out and do anything Kkrazy!

Everybody doesn’t really know what you did.

MRSHINYSHOES's avatar

If you’re female, they might be thinking about sex. We men think about sex almost constantly. I know that may sound uncouth, but it’s true.

majorrich's avatar

Sex. Hmmmmmm. Yup just thought about it. Nope. Too old.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

Sweet holy moly, since you did not discribe yourself I would have to say men look becuase you are a looker or a fat “dreck” (dreadful train wreck), hope you are the former not the latter.

busta21's avatar

They could be getting a boner because of your beauty, they like you, find you attractive, thinking about you in bed, there friends like you, etc. There are some not so good reasons also like they heard a rumor about you, and stuff like that. But it’s mostly good reasons why a guy would stare at you.

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