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Is it good not have much interest in making love?

Asked by khemmy (33points) October 8th, 2010

I have a friend that get fed up while making love with her partner,she likes doing it once and round it up with a lot of romances.

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nailpolishfanatic's avatar

I think it’s okay as long as the guy is okay with it too.

meiosis's avatar

It’s a shame for her – good sex with the right person is mind-blowing. How old is your friend? Sex is, in my experience, something that one gets better at (both giving and receiving) over time, as one learns from past triumphs and disasters.

BoBo1946's avatar

@meiosis I’m with you on this one. Sex at any age is good. Also, I’ve found it’s about chemistry, chemistry, and chemistry. I’ve been with lady that the sex was awesome, but we would have never made it as partners. Such a shame.

GracieT's avatar

Consider if she is on any medications. I’m on several that make me completely uninterested unless my husband and I talk about it.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

It’s not good or bad. Quantity of sex isn’t a moral imperative, so to speak. It is what it is and if your friend’s okay by it, let it be.

Seaofclouds's avatar

I agree with @Simone_De_Beauvoir. I think the most important aspect of sex in a relationship is being open and honest with your partner about what you each want. Then working together from there. If one person wants it a lot and the other doesn’t, there will be a need for compromise. If your friend and her partner are happy, it really doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks.

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