I feel no responsibility because I did nothing wrong where Coloma was concerned. What I’m upset about is being included in the reason why she was banned. We had our encounter but it was instigated by her. I only defended myself, rightfully. I’ve since had her defenders blame me for her being banned and say I was partially responsible. None of this is true. I’ve lost Fluther friends over this because they wouldn’t take the time to listen to my side. They believed Coloma’s pack. This has hurt me immensely during the worst time of my life.

Coloma had issues with mods for years. The current mods did nothing wrong.

3 weeks ago

To expose the absurdities and inefficiencies of these politicians is like the “sheep” doing the herding for a change. lol

I just don’t think my heart could take a few more years of this political BS in the US.

November 8th, 2018

Regarding your answer:

The point I was trying to convey is that she insists she host whatever holiday she wants. I had planned to host when my son went away to college. All kid want to come home for the holiday, to have the comforts of “their home, food, etc”.

I understand she is older, aging, etc. but I missed out on hosting when my boys were young due to her needs, and now that she might not be around much longer, I miss out again.

The bright side, is I’m learning first hand what “type of in-law NOT to be”.

November 29th, 2016

Regarding your answer:
Thanks!!

February 17th, 2016

Regarding your answer:
Thanks in being tested for Marfan syndrome.

October 16th, 2015