How do you cut off a past relationship completely ?

I wanna know how I can get over my ex. I’m tired of all this drama, pain, and I can’t take it anymore.

I feel like this relationship is killing me slowly, but at the same time I find letting go so damn difficult.

We constantly fight, but I can’t seem to not pick up his calls or answer his texts.

This is really draining me, and I WANT to move on, but I find myself constantly thinking about him and missing him.

He was abusive to me, and has been throwing pictures and videos of other girls in my face. He also sent me naked pictures of another girl to my facebook. He is just disrespectful, and a monster, and I want to move on.

I know at the present moment it usually seems like one can never get over a past love, but I can’t stop myself from wanting to answer his messages.

I’m only 20 and have the rest of my life ahead of me, and I know I deserve someone who is kind,honest,respectful, and won’t throw other women in my face.

Does anyone have any techniques to get over an ex ? Or is this something I will just have to let time heal itself ?

We were only together for 5 months, but it was a very intense,passionate, and wild relationship—I guess that’s why we didn’t work out ! The fire was hot, but the flame burned out….

It feels like we have a bond together, a destructive bond, but we can’t let it go, but I know we have to….

Each time we break up, or say we’re broken up, we keep on coming back to each other and I am getting TIRED of it.

It’s like ping pong.

He’s also blocked on my facebook, and I want to change my number so I won’t be tempted to answer his calls if he tries to call me…

Thanks anything advice would help.