Send to a Friend

LucyH's avatar

When your boyfriend wants to get serious and acts strangely as if he owns you, and you don't want that, what would you do?

Asked by LucyH (21points) October 26th, 2010

Actually, I’m a 17 year old girl and 2 months ago I got into a relationship with a 20 year old. I have to admit that he’s pretty gentle and he shows me his affection everyday, but he says he wants a serious relationship, at the beginning I just ok “ok, let’s try” but I can’t say I really like it. For example I had a very close male friend and every time I hung out with him, my bf got really mad by saying that now that we are together he should understand that I can’t hang out with my friends as I did before. I said I could try and decrease a bit the time I spent with them. But he gets really mad even if I dedicate a Friday with my mates… Plus he says that when I graduate (he knows I want to study and live abroad) we could have a long distance relationship and he tries to convince me to live here in Greece… I really wanna talk about it and at this point I really don’t mind breaking up… I mean I’m a 17 year old girl and I wanna live my life properly… But the problem is one of my friends (best) from my previous school likes him a lot and tells me not to break up, as he loves me ect… I’m desperate right now… Please help me :( Thanks :)

Using Fluther

or

Using Email

Separate multiple emails with commas.
We’ll only use these emails for this message.