What are some subtle differences between men who genuinely enjoy the company of women and men who don't?

And in your experience, what percentage of married men don’t enjoy the company of women and are uncomfortable with their… differences?

I’m curious because my father was such a man and it affected all four of his daughters, and sent my mother to an early grave. Is it common? What’s it like to grow up the daughter of a man who appreciates and enjoys women?