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How can I tell this girl I want to be with her?

Asked by johnny (335points) November 18th, 2010 from iPhone

So I just met these two girls recently. I work with one of them and we hit it off pretty good. But then she wanted me to meet her bestfriend. That was a mistake, because when I met the best friend we instantly had a strong connection, and now the bestfriend and I talk way more than the girl I work with. The bestfriend has hinted that she wants to be more than just friends, and to be honest, that’s what I want too.

The only problem is, I have sort of a thing going with the girl I work with. Like she calls me babe and always wants me to take her out to dinner and stuff like that.

I didn’t mean for this to happen. It just did. I really like the bestfriend. She is perfect for me. We get along so well and when we hangout it’s like we are going out. I really think I could actually be in love with the bestfriend, but I just don’t how to tell her. Or if I should tell her at all. I don’t want to ruin their relationship as bestfriends, but I can’t help it that I fell for the bestfriend either.

If any of you have any suggestions or any light to shed on the subject, it would be much appreciated. Thanks.

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