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Is grounding a teenager for bad grades an effective tool?

Asked by trailsillustrated (16799points) November 23rd, 2010

I just had a huge argument with my husband over my discipline of my daughter. She is in an expensive prep school that he is paying for, she is on acadaemic probation. They had a snow day today, so I let her go to her friend’s (honours student) to study. I let her go to a birthday party Saturday night but made her come home at 8. (It was a sleepover). She is staying after school every day for study hall, being mentored by other students for their honour society hours. I am working with the school to know her assignments and keep on top of her to work on them. He thinks I am too easy going with her and should have kept her grounded for two weeks. I can’t stand the arguments with him about it, he thinks she should be confined to the house and her room until two weeks are up. Does grounding a 14 year old over grades help at all? Her behaviour otherwise has not been a problem.

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