Ladies and Gentlemen what is your option on shaving body hair once in a committed relationship?

LADIES

ive noticed not in just my life but in my female firends lives, when we are single we tend to keep up on shaving our legs, arms and XXX parts regularly (meaning every shower, everyday). But when we become in a serious committed relationship we will some times “slack” on certain parts(when it comes to our everyday/every shower). Example… I always keep up on my arms and “XXX” parts but sometimes will skip a “shave time” or two with my legs for a shower or two. Do you, even in these relationships, still shave every part every shower day or do you sometimes only shave some parts every time, every shower shave?

MEN

When you are single Ive notice that you keep yourself clean shaved all the time, but when your in a committed relationship sometime you will let your facial hair and or “XXX” parts grow for a little while before you get back to it.

TO BOTH GENDERS

How do you feel about your S/O letting certain parts of their body that grows hair grow “longer” then when you first met them? And if you could choose one part of your S/O body to be consistently shaved what part would it be?