How would you react over then next few years if you found out at your husband's funeral that he had two other "wives" and children?

Picture it. At the funeral, there are these strange faces and you wonder why they seem to be so upset. You meet them after the service, and they tell you that they just buried their husband.

How do you react at that moment? How do you react as time goes by? Would you want to know them or would you just want to forget all about them? Would you set up a long term relationship with them? Would you want to figure out what your husband had been thinking?

And how would you feel about yourself? How would that affect your image of yourself—who you are; your capabilities; your perceptions?