Am I being irrational?

Asked by Kokoro (1424) January 4th, 2011 from iPhone

I used to have this good friend, but long story short she has disappointed me so many times to the point where I feel even silly for forgiving her and always giving her benefit of the doubt. To those that don’t know her truly praise her constantly as if she’s the greatest. I know how they feel because I felt that way once, but now I can’t even seem to stand being around her. She will say I’m one of her best friends but she does not treat me like one, at times is fake and selfish.

What really has been bothering me is that my friends that I introduced her to now hang out with her and are now in the ‘smitten’ phase of how cool she is. I hate it because now it seems she’s always brought up in the conversation (ok not always but definitely a mention) when she’s not around. I miss my friends and them being separate from her, she brings me so much irritation and she has constant drama and stress in her life that it frustrates me. Its such a small place that I can’t just ignore her or blow her off. We have a lot of friends in common now… what should I do?