Are flexibility and confidence correlated?

Are you flexible and confident?
Are you flexible and insecure?

I want to know whether flexibility and confidence are related? in a positive correlation way… one goes up and the other does too…

I mean…

I don’t like people dropping in on me because I like to be prepared, because I’m not good with people = not flexible = not confident

I like everything to be organised, from road trips to breakfast plans because I’m not confident in my capabilities to deal with unknowns.. = not flexible = not confident…

You see where I’m going with this… do you agree…

tell me your story…