(NSFW) What are some things I can "order" my guy to do to me?

Last night, while hanging out and talking with the guy I am casually seeing, he told me that he thinks it would be really sexy if he came over one night and just did anything to me (sexually) that I told him to do. I said that I would be open to that, and I definitely am, but I’ve never done anything like that before and I’m not quite sure what exactly I should order him to do. All I can think of is telling him to go down on me and to fuck me, which is a somewhat limited list. So I’m interested in hearing some ideas – especially from guys, but ideas from women who have experience here would be greatly appreciated as well.

Also, since it is my first time doing something like this, I think it would be best not to get too crazy or hardcore, as articulating those things would be extremely awkward for me…and I would prefer not to sound awkward!