What do you think lasts longer in a relationship, passionate love or love & affection?

Going through a bit of heartache people, so I hope to get some real answers, men preferably, give me some honest perspective here. Thinking in terms of the qualities you would need for a long term relationship (aside from honesty and trust, that is a given), What is your definition of “passionate love”? Would this be a deal breaker for you to end your relationship if you did not have it? Please advise.