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My 3y/o is scared of dying. How best to calm him down?

Asked by atomicmonkey (1665points) April 12th, 2011

“OMG! How can your three year old be aware of death? You’re the worst parent in the world!” I hear you say. Well guess what? Sometimes pet cats die. And sometimes grandparents die. And sometimes you let your kid watch Nightmare on Elm Street. Okay, I didn’t let him watch that, but the other stuff DID happen and now he’s asking if I’LL die, and if HE’LL die and he’s getting a little anxious about it.

I tell him I don’t PLAN to die, and that it’s really not something he needs to worry about right now. I know if I tell him that everyone dies eventually that it will freak him right out and he’ll obsess over it. Or should I quit postponing the inevitable and perform that “Everybody Dies & It Could Happen Any Time, & It Probably Wont Be You Today But It Could Be” sock puppet play I’ve written for him. Who has a suggestion?

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