Do you know the doings of your spouse?

So I got in an argument with my wife. She is out of town and I was headed out with one of my friends to catch a movie. She ended up getting upset at the fact that I didn’t tell her prior to me almost going out and said that “most spouses know where the other is at all times”. Now that just kinda blew my mind, also turns out she doesn’t trust me and thinks that I am going to cheat on her someday (which there is no cheating and has never been cause for such speculation). So I am thinking her thoughts stem from her insecurity. Regardless. Is that the normal of the world? Does yours spouse or counterpart know where you are at all times? Is that healthy? Should I be telling her more?