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Is it awkward if your bestfriend (girl) is liked by your other bestfriend (guy)?

Asked by chk8n (106points) May 15th, 2011 from iPhone

It happened a couple of days ago. I have actually fallen for the guy. And I meant no harm, but my bestfriend (girl) is not ready to have a boyfriend because she’s very…loose on herself, in terms of independence.

If it will be awkward for me, since I will be in the middle, should I refrain from seeing those two? And just let the natural ways do it’s matchmaking job?

I’m partly the reason why the guy would fall for her. I innocently set up an event where I introduced the two, not on purpose, but it’s so that it doesnt seem like a date for us (the guy & me). My other bestfriend(girl) invited herself to this event. I said yes. Then the whole mess just started from there—at least for me.

What should I do?

I want to keep the guy bestfriend, but I can’t seem to stop the thoughts and the fact that he had told me he liked my best friend. It’s slowly killing me.

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