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[NSFW] Women what terms are acceptable to you to refer to you or your intimate anatomy when you are with an intimate partner?

Asked by wundayatta (58722points) June 17th, 2011

I’m sure there is an inexhaustible list of terms to refer to a woman’s “pussy.” I think that pussy may be one of the most acceptable ones. However other terms such as cunt or cocksucker, whore, or bitch as well as numerous others are available for use. Depending on context and who is using the term, you may like some of the terms or all of them or none of them, I suppose.

Some women might hate to be called “cunt” by one lover, yet find it acceptable by another. Other women would never want to called by that name or have their pussy referred to by that name under and circumstances, not even with Jesus.

So what is your preferred name for your intimate anatomy? What names are you willing (or excited) to use given the right context and partner? What are those contexts? Who is that partner?

What other words are you willing to have used? What words do you find exciting, but only when used in the privacy of your bedroom?

Why are these terms acceptable to you or not under the different circumstances? What experiences do you associate the different terms with?

Guys—have you ever been made aware that you have overstepped the bounds of what your lover finds acceptable? Did you pay attention and comply with that preference? Have you ever been asked to use words you are not comfortable using?

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