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Why, when dealing with the elderly in a hospital, do doctors insist on talking to the family instead of the patient, when they are lying right there?

Asked by Judi (40025points) August 20th, 2011 from iPhone

I’m sitting in Stanford hospital right now with my MIL, and the medical team just came in. One doctor did most if the talking, and, until I stopped him, he was directing all his questions and concerns to me. I finally had to stop him and say, “Talk to her, not me!”
Why do they insist on treating elderly as children, instead of with dignity and respect?

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