I need help with my daughter, could people who know Aspergers help me?

We’ve lost our insurance so I can’t take her to her therapist right now.

This wonderful young lady is starting to become hard to handle. She’s disrespectful, she yells and screams, all she tells us is that we aren’t listening and that we don’t understand then slams the bedroom door in our faces. This started a few months ago and all I can attribute the behavior to is that her dad is moving. But what I don’t get is he’s not moving far, so she’ll still see him on a regular basis. That’s not changing.

Unless I’m totally clueless and there is something else there. But how do I know when she doesn’t talk anymore. She just sits in her room and reads. Say hello to her in the wrong tone and she blows up. She’s 11.

Have any parents with Aspberger children go through this tough of a time? How about those with Aspbergers themselves. How did you get through rough times and how did your parents help? Like I said, we don’t have insurance so I can’t take her to a therapist. That’s why I’ve come here, please don’t judge me; I’m hard on myself enough as it is. Thanks!