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No one is this nice right, do you think she has a motive?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907points) August 31st, 2011

2 years ago I met a guy in my class and we clicked and became good friends. We were both in serious relationships at the time and didn’t want to date each other. We’d hang out once a month and keep in touch after the quarter ended. I was friends with him about a year until he said he couldn’t be my friend because his gf didn’t like it.

Since then, I never heard from him. Then I get a Facebook request from his gf on Facebook in November. I thought she hated me but she said that she never hated me and that her bf lied about our friendship together. Since then, she’s always trying to start conversation chats with me and trying to give me advice. She’s taken a big interest in my new boyfriend and always commenting on our pictures saying overly nice things like “Oh my gosh you guys are so cute together, I love it!!!” I’m not sure if anyone is THIS nice or if she is being fake.

One time my status was “I feel sick” and she put up a long paragraph on “Oh sweety you just work too hard and push yourself because you’re very dedicated. Just get some rest and you’ll feel all better!”

I’m just wondering why she comments on all of my pics with my new boyfriend saying how cute and wonderful we look. How beautiful I am and all that. It’s kind of creepy that she’s being super nice.

Do you think she has a motive? A part of me thinks that she wants to make sure I keep away from her boyfriend still after all this time. She claims she is sorry to have ruined our friendship and wants us to be friends but I still don’t talk to her boyfriend as a friend lol.

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