What was the most un-celebrative special occasion day of your life?

I am requesting answers only from those people who acknowlege special dates. (Some people have the “one day is as good as another attitude”)

Background: today would have been a wedding anniversay for me and my guy. This occasion has caused to me want to ask you what was the bleakest “special day” you have ever put in.

I hope you will share with me days that were MEANT to be happy and festive that didn’t go that way for any of a myriad of spoiling reasons. Will you share with me some details and P.S. thanks for helping me get through this day with a little fluthering.