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Do you feel this *See details, is necessary or acceptible behavior when people refuse to listen?
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October 3rd, 2011
When you attempt to explain your feelings to someone concerning the way they have hurt, insulted, or maligned you, do you resort to doing it back to them, knowing it is wrong when words have no effect on their conscience? Is this normal and natural and more importantly is it really necessary?
If you think about it, we project love, return and give love in the ways we know someone understands our feelings in doing so, and make all sorts of plesant exchanges in that we return love with love and that is deemed perfectly acceptible but what about when someone hurts you and either refuses to listen, or just doesn’t care?
Is this tit for tat behavior biased? And is it right to make someone understand what they have done by doing it to them so that they have an understanding of exactly what they did by evidence.
I tend to do that, if I hurt you… You thereby have proof positive of exactly the way and measure of how very much you first hurt me, in what way and to what extent.
I find it effective as a tool, for these types of selfish, self righteous, sociopathic tools who don’t care, or don’t hear you when words become useless and therefore resolve nothing.
Knowing perfectly well that this is not deemed socially acceptible… Should it be? Yes or no? and do you have a better way of dealing with someone like this?
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