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Can you help me with one of my first boy troubles?

Asked by blueberry_kid (5957points) October 14th, 2011

I have a friend who is know at school as a player. I’m not really into guys like that, because that just means they’re pretty on the outside, but ugly on the inside. I really hate that. But, this is the first time I’m really meeting him. He’s actually very nice, and is what I think very cute. The only problem is, my best friend got her heartbroken by him and my other friend has a really big crush on him.

Now, I don’t know if I like him or not because there are times where he makes fun of me and says some insults, but I brush them off. Even though I am very insecure.

This guy is different than what you may think. He’s very attractive and is very sweet. There’s also another problem: He has a cush on my very best friend Kayla. But, she is loved by every boy known to man, most likely. So, even if I did really like him, there is no way he woud like me. And another thing, he bounces around from girl to girl. Like I said: He liked a friend of mine, then a dfferent girl, then Kayla. But, a year ago, he went out with my another friend. Also, 3 of my friends. really like him. And so goes on the chain of girls for him.

The main problem is, I think I really like him. I feel like if I say something, I’m making a whole lot of my friends of upset, i’m some what of a follower and loser, and I don’t want that to happen. As well as having the humiliation; eirgo my insecurity. He’s very sweet and very cute but I feel guilty about having those feelings.

Is this bad? Am I being a terrible friend?

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