Is it a bad idea to wait until I lose more weight until I meet the guy I like ?

I’ve been talking to this man I really like but I’ve been holding off meeting him until I lose about 15 pounds.. Is this a bad idea ? I want to look good for him, and I’ve been using this as a sort of motivation to get me going. I’ve been wanting to lose weight before I met him so it’s not only all for him. Could this be a bad thing if I wait too long until I meet him ? He doesn’t know this.

Every time that we talk, we talk about hanging out, and I put it off. He doesn’t know that the reason why I don’t want to meet is because of my weight. I just tell him excuses like I’m not in town, etc. I think it will take me about 2 months to lose the 15 pounds.

I want to look super hot when I meet him and I feel like it will give me better confidence. But could it back fire if I don’t meet him soon? Things seem to be going good in place and we’ve been talking for a few months now.