Older members of fluther, at what age did you stop trying to be sexy?

Asked by willbrawn (6614) January 5th, 2012 from iPhone

Hopefully I can explain what I mean better. Keep in mind i am in my mid twenties. When I look around I see people my age and younger and a good portion (I know not all) try to appear attractive to the opposite sex. They dress well and try to use their natural sex appeal. I also see a good amount of older people, im guessing 40+ that no longer strive to appeal to the opposite sex any longer. Is it because they get married? Just tired? Because you no longer feel sexy or wanted? I’m curious.