Just because a song hits a spot of memory of my ex, doesn't mean I'm hung up on him does it?

Isn’t it normal to have some song remind you of someone?Okay, so it’s been over a year since my last relationship. I’m over him, I moved on, he’s moved on, he’s engaged, etc. etc. We remained friendly after the break up until he got a girlfriend and he had to cut off complete contact with me.

It’s been a long time, and I don’t think of it every day. Sometimes he’ll just pop up in my head when I hear a song that relates to us. I don’t know why, but it just does. The song “Somebody that I used to know” describes it. It hurts that I can never talk to him again. I don’t want him back really, I just really miss our friendship and our talks. We use to be good friends before dating. It’s just a shame…

I wouldn’t leave my boyfriend for my ex. I am just stating that it’s been a long time and I still care for my ex. I guess I always will ya know? Anyways, people are trying to tell me I’m not over him. I feel like I’m over him, I just wish there was that friendship is all.