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What is the biggest lie, by someone close to you, that you have been able to forgive?

Asked by OpryLeigh (25305points) June 3rd, 2012

Did your relationship suffer for it in the short term and/or long term?

Today I found out that someone lied to me, apparently to protect me from worrying. Whilst I believe that their motives were mostly good intentioned I am struggling to deal with the fact that this person lied to me and it’s really hurting me right now. I really don’t want it to tarnish my relationship with this person, who means a great deal to me, but I fear that I may struggle to trust them in the future. On the other hand, the lie was to protect me and so maybe I am being to harsh on them. I have asked them to never lie to me again, even if they think the truth will bother me.

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