What if your spouse was a prisoner in a different country?

You guys are going to think I’m crazy and need help lol but this is kind of a spin-off from my last question although I’m not as concentrated on that. But Iwas watching some show about this man who went to prison in Indonesia when he wasn’t even guilty. He was there for several years after many attempts to escape. His wife divorced him.

Anyways, I was wondering if you know your spouse is wrongfully convicted in another country what would you do? Same goes for if your spouse was a war prisoner in Iraq or Afghanistan. Do you think you could move on? Wouldn’t you feel bad to move on and be happy knowing that they are still alive and being tortured and miserable?