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NSFW, Virginity in young adulthood: endearing or a deal-breaker?

Asked by desiree333 (3195 points ) January 21st, 2013

Just watched a YouTube video on prude shaming. It got me thinking; if you were a young adult (let’s say age 18–25) and found out your new significant other was a virgin, how would you react? Please give your opinion from the viewpoint of both a male and a female, or just your own sex if you want.

I think society teaches us to question and deviate those who aren’t “experienced” sexually. But on an individual basis I would think people wouldn’t be bothered by it. Every time you have sex with someone for the first time, it is new regardless of how many partners you have had previously. So why would it be any different if they just hadn’t had sex at all?

Sorry, try not to let my opinion sway yours!

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