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Your place or theirs?

Asked by CugelTheClueless (1539points) February 1st, 2013

Say you’ve met somebody you’re attracted to, and the attraction is mutual. You’re ready to get physical. Where do you go for your first time together—your place or hers/his? And does it make a difference what kind of encounter it is (a casual hook-up or what you hope will be a long-term relationship)? Women: How do you feel if a man suggests you and he go to your place instead of inviting you to his place?

I’m male, and 75% of my “first times” have been in her bed, which I prefer, but only once at my suggestion.

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