Send to a Friend

submariner's avatar

Southerners: is "bless your heart" always ironic?

Asked by submariner (4145 points ) February 2nd, 2013

I’m from Michigan, and I didn’t grow up hearing the expression, “bless your heart”, but I’ve picked it up somehow. I use it non-ironically when someone does something thoughtful. But I gather the expression is used ironically in the South, as in “He just can’t seem to hold onto a job, bless his heart” (in which “bless his heart” is used as a euphemism for the plainly derogative expressions that a Northerner might use in this context, such as “the loser”). I’m wondering if Southerners ever use this expression simply to express its surface meaning or if it is always used in this euphemistic/ironic way.

Using Fluther

or

Using Email

Separate multiple emails with commas.
We’ll only use these emails for this message.