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Nsfw Did you ever french kiss someone who didn't fit your sexual orientation?

Asked by wundayatta (58722points) February 21st, 2013

I mean if you identify as straight, did you ever kiss someone of the same sex, and if you identify as gay, did you ever kiss someone of a different sex? If you’re bi, I guess you can’t really answer this question because everyone fits your sexual orientation.

What I want to know is how it came to happen. Did you have to be in an altered state of consciousness—drunk or high—or did it happen while you were straight (so to speak)? Were you getting weirded out when you did it? Did you get weirded out later? Or were you able to believe it was no big deal? Did you spare no thought for it at all, after, even if you never did it again?

Was it different from what you usually do in a way you attribute to the gender of the person you were kissing as opposed to just individual differences? Did you feel good about it? Or did it make you feel queasy or wrong or guilty afterwards?

How and why did it happen, and how did you react to the experience? Did you ever do it again? Would you?

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