Would this piss you off if you were my ex-wife and her steady boyfriend?

I have the nicest kids on the face of the planet. Sorry, I have tested this empirically, I don’t plan to engage in any arguments.

My ex-wife and her new beau are much stricter than I am. Certain friends in common have related to me, that they are stricter than I. I was reading on a website that you can make coupons to get children out of chores if they were especially well behaved.

If you were my ex, and I gave my children coupons when I had them on the weekends, would you be pissed off by my doing so? Or would you say they only count for daddy? Should I broach the topic at all with her?