What do you expect from guest staying in your home for a few days, versus someone staying for a week or longer?

Please also explain if it is from the way you were raised of if it is your own personal preferences.
If you have a spouse, please write if there are any differences in how you expect a guest to behave.
Examples:
Do you expect them to help cook or clean or just keep their stuff neat, or to participate in family activities, to pay for dinner for themselves or not pay for a single thing,if dining out? To say thank you or you don’t care if they stay on your computer the whole visit, or if they sit and watch tv till late at night.