How many signs do I need?

My long distance boyfriend of around a month and a half is still logging on to his Match.com account. He doesn’t know that I know about it. He told me the subscription had ended on the 16th, forgive me, but I thought Match.com was free?

He went for dinner with a female friend tonight, although he was back home talking with me early in the night. I suspect this female friend was his ex girlfriend, but I have no proof.

He seems reluctant to change his facebook status from single.

Pardon me, but taking an objective view, it looks like I am playing the fool.

Do I need a slap in the face? How many more flags do I need?

How can I confront him about this? It seems to me the only thing to do is to remove myself from this relationship, if you can even call it that…despite his insistence on us being “exclusive”.

Onwards and upwards? :(