What books can you recommend help atheists amicably discuss religion with believers.

There are plenty of books and debates where one side or the other, or both sides of the theism/atheism tear each other to shreds and get essentially nowhere at changing anyone’s mind. As an atheist, I’d like to read a book or two that give me ideas on how to talk with and debate with theists in a respectful way, but a way that clears up any misunderstandings they may hold regarding atheism; and that shows them the logical errors that routinely underpin theism without doing so in an offensive way.

Any recommendations to add to my “want to read” list?