A long term married couple divorce. Is it usually the man's fault? Is that what society, even in the face of 'equality for women', still feels about the typical divorce?

I’m all for equality of the sexes and equal wages. I work for a company that is 83% female and 17% male. I’m going through a divorce, so I feel like the “evil man” as women tend to gather around other women when a separation or divorce happens. I wonder if society will ever view things differently? Or maybe men are typically more at fault for divorce?