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How do I become friends with him?

Asked by laura98 (173 points ) March 10th, 2014

So I found out the kid who works as a sexton at my church ( he is in one of my previous questions so if you want to know more you can go look) lives in my neighborhood. Our bus took a different way and it passed his bus stop just two streets down from my own. I just wondered if there were any ideas on how to get him to notice me and maybe if I could somehow get closer with him.

Honestly, I’m just really lonely and don’t have many friends. I spend my days consumed in school work and my weekends just sitting in my room on my computer because I really have no one else. At school I’m surrounded by my one friend who treats me horribly. I often get really depressed and I’ve suffered from anxiety/depression all my life. Yes, I’ve tried to kill myself and I think about it a lot. Yet, that is besides the point. I just want to find a friend whom I can do things with all the time. Someone who actually wants to do things with me instead of just for personal gain.

He’s incredibly handsome and from what my dad told me ( He’s a deacon at our church) he’s incredibly talented, etc. I just want someone who will play video games with me/ have star trek marathons with me, etc. I just don’t know where to even start and I don’t want to feel so alone anymore. I don’t want to be creepy either. I just don’t know how to be friends with him without coming off as creepy. Please help, anyone.

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