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Would it bother you if your new partner had previously slept with A LOT of people? NSFW?

Asked by Crumpet (1805points) March 30th, 2014

I’ve been dating a girl for over 10 weeks, and we have made it official that we are in a relationship. I’m 25 and she is 22.
We have so much in common and get on really well.
We’re both falling in love and have just started saying it to each other.
She looks and acts really sweet and innocent, but I’ve recently found out that she has slept with a very high number of guys.
We were talking about sex and she said she was the first girl in high school to give a BJ… When she was 12! And that she started going clubbing in the city at 15/16 years old every week. And slept with someone every single time.
I have slept with 15 girls in my life, including her. I jokingly asked how many people she had slept with and she just said “you really don’t want to know”.
She said she’s not like that anymore though, and it was all in the past.

I really am falling in love with this girl, we seem so perfect for each other, but her past kind of makes me feel sick.

What should I do?

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